What is the solution? Rather than yet another
difficult task to add to your schedule, this answer is fun and easy! Read on!
Build the anticipation:
Build the anticipation:
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Sending sexy messages
and hints during the day letting your partner know that you are in the mood,
will fire things up for you at night. These days' people are very busy and the
only thing they think about doing at night is hitting the bed. You can change
this attitude and turn your partner from sleepy to sexy by creating something
to look forward to throughout the day.
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Pamper yourself before
with a warm bath or fresh shower so you are relaxed and feel fresher.
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Perhaps give your
partner a sexy bath by candlelight. Be sure to rinse and dry too. Your partner
wants to feel pampered and nurtured as much as you do.
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Tell your partner
something you genuinely appreciate about them. Maybe they know it already but
stimulate all the senses with a few soft words of appreciation. This touches
the essence of their being and opens them to love. Think about it. How do you
feel when you receive a compliment you weren't expecting? (This really works!)
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A spritz of body candy flavored kissing spray in your mouth before a kiss is sure to surprise and
delight.
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Perhaps sprinkle a
little bath powder on the sheets for a special scent that isn't overpowering.
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Put on your favorite
music.
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Light candles for a
romantic ambiance.
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Remember that romance
is a process not an event!
Break the monotony:
Many working couples are just too exhausted to
try anything new in the bedroom, following a routine course that gets
monotonous over time. Does this sound familiar? Though such a routine is easy
to follow and doesn't require any special efforts, it tends to get to a point
where you just become numb to it.
Follow these fun and easy tips and you are
sure to rekindle the passion and spice it up in the bedroom!
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You can always startle
your partner by just gently reaching out when they least expect it.
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Look in each other's
eyes. As strange and no-brainer as that may sound, we tend to get caught up in
our own melodrama or version of things. When this occurs, the first thing we do
is inadvertently hide our eyes and withdraw. When your body is present but your
spirit is not fully present, your partner feels it and responds accordingly.
When we look in each other's eyes, we connect. Try it! It's true.
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Use a different
position while making love and you will see how this will bring up new feelings
that bring the excitement back. Don't be shy - this is your chosen partner.
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Nibbling, biting,
licking and pinching can add variety to lovemaking, but start slowly and gently
to see how your partner responds. These clues will tell you whether to continue
with that or not.
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Add that extra romance
by just applying a little edible body glaze to different parts of your body and
have your partner begin the tongue's scrumptious journey across your quivering
flesh.
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Do the same in
reverse! Don't just go to the same obvious place. Add intrigue and stimulation
by focusing your attention on those places that have been overlooked. They are
starving for your attention and will be highly sensitive because of it. Explore
the small of the back, tummy, inner thigh, buttocks, back of neck, you get the
idea!
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Slow down! Take your
time. It's not a race. Savor each moment like it's the most precious thing in
your life. It is.
Following these tips you'll rekindle the
passion, feel appreciated and fall in love with each other all over again. What
more can you ask for!
